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I-Soudfa - Lapho Abangashadile Bama-Arabhu namaSulumane Behlangana Ngomshado, Hhayi Ukufanisa Nje

I-Soudfa ayilona nje olunye uhlelo lokusebenza lokuthandana. Kulapho abangashadile bama-Arab kanye namaSulumane abavela emhlabeni wonke beza khona ukuze bathole uthando lwangempela, bakhe ubuhlobo obuqinile, futhi baqale uhambo lwabo oluya emshadweni olusekelwe okholweni, ezimisweni, namasiko.

ISoudfa yakhelwe labo abaluthathela phezulu uthando. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuqomisana kwe-halal, ufuna umlingani wakho we-zawaj, noma ulungele ukukhuluma i-nikah, lesi isikhala esihlonipha izinhloso zakho, isizinda sakho, nezinkolelo zakho.

I-Soudfa iwuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqala lomshado wama-Arabhu oluthenjwa amalungu angaphezu kwezigidi eziyi-10.

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Umshado Uza Kuqala
Lolu akulona uhlelo lokusebenza oluvamile lokuthandana.
I-Soudfa yakhelwe abantu abafuna ukwakha impilo, hhayi nje ukudlula isikhathi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlola i-misyar, uzimisele nge-zawaj, noma umatasa ulungiselela i-nikah, izici zethu zisekela ubudlelwano obuthembekile, obunamabomu.

Asivele sikubonise amaphrofayili angahleliwe. Sikusiza ukuthi uxhumane nomuntu othi:

- Wabelana ngokholo lwakho kanye namagugu omndeni
- Uqonda imiqondo efana ne-taaraf, isizotha nokuhloniphana
- Ufuna ubudlelwano obunencazelo—hhayi umsindo

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Okuyimfihlo. Kuphephile. Ngenhlonipho.
Siyazi ukuthi ubumfihlo buyinto enkulu, ikakhulukazi uma ubhekene nokuthile okuqondene nawe njengokuthola umaqondana.
Kungakho iSoudfa yakhelwe ngokubona nokulawula:

- Imodi yokuphequlula ehlakaniphile
- Ukulawula okugcwele kokuthi ubani obona iphrofayela yakho noma izithombe
- Vikela ingxoxo yangaphakathi nohlelo namanothi ezwi
- Ama-albhamu ayimfihlo ongawakhetha kanye nezici zokugunyazwa kwesithombe
- Isistimu yephrofayela eqinisekisiwe ukuze wazi ukuthi ubani okhuluma naye owangempela

Ubeka ijubane. Uyanquma ukuthi uzokwabelana ngani—futhi nini.

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Ukufaniswa Okuhlakaniphile NgokweSiko
Ngeke uthole ukulingana-konke lapha.

Kusuka ekwazisweni kwephrofayili kuya kuzinketho zokuhlunga, yonke into ihambisana nempilo yama-Arabhu neyamaSulumane:

- Qondanisa izihlungi ngenkolo, indlela yokuphila, indawo, imigomo yomndeni
- Ukwaziswa nemibuzo ebonisa amanani akho, izinhloso, kanye nobuwena
- Indawo enenhlonipho, ezolile engenawo amasu

Noma ngabe ungowendabuko noma wesimanjemanje, sikuvumela ukuthi uzethule ngendlela ezwakala iyiqiniso kuwe.

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Ukusuka ku-Salam kuya kokuthile Kwangempela
Kwesinye isikhathi okudingekayo yigama elilodwa nje: Salam.

Ku-Soudfa, ukubingelela kungaholela engxoxweni yangempela, iphupho elabiwe, kanye nokuxhumana okuhlala njalo. Izinkulungwane zabasebenzisi bethu sezivele zisithathile leso sinyathelo—abanye bayaxoxa, abanye bathembisene umshado, futhi abaningi manje bashadile.

Indaba yakho yothando ingaqala ngendlela efanayo.

Sikubonile kwenzeka kaningi: abantu ababili abavela emadolobheni ahlukene, ngisho namazwekazi ahlukene, bathola ukufana kwabo ngezinkolelo ezabiwe, ukuxhumana okucacile, kanye nesibindi esincane.

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Kungani Izigidi Zikhetha I-Soudfa

- Uhlelo lokusebenza lomshado omkhulu wama-Arabhu namaSulumane
- Yakhelwe ngokukhethekile ukuqomisana kwe-halal kanye nobudlelwano obunzima
- Amalungu ayizigidi eziyi-10 futhi akhulayo
- Iphephile, iyimfihlo, futhi ilungele abesifazane
- Abasebenzisi abaqinisekisiwe kuphela-akukho bots, akukho imidlalo
- Okufanayo okusekelwe okholweni, umbono womndeni, nokuhambisana
- Amathuluzi we-zawaj, nikah, ne-misyar
- Kusetshenziswa abangashadile, abahlukanisile, nabafelokazi abalungele ithuba lesibili othandweni

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EzoKholo. Okomndeni. Ngekusasa.
USoudfa uyaqonda ukuthi kuma-single amaningi ama-Arabhu namaMuslim, uthando alugcini nje ngemizwa—lumayelana nokwakha ikusasa elihlonipha i-deen, isithunzi, nesiko lomndeni.

Uma yilokho okufunayo, uthole indawo efanele.

Soudfa - Abantu bangempela. Inhloso yangempela. Uthando lwangempela.