Because love alone isn’t enough. What matters most is how you navigate it.
Cleared for Love is a relationship book for people who are ready to stop defaulting to conflict, compromise, or quiet resentment — and start co-piloting their relationship with intention. Blending honest storytelling with practical tools, it reads like a hybrid between a narrative guide and a relationship workbook.
You’ll learn how to shift from reacting to collaborating — not just in major decisions, but as co-pilots in the everyday choices that shape connection and trust.
Inside, you’ll discover:
- The four patterns couples fall into — and why only one builds long-term partnership
- How to recognize when you're slipping into power plays, passive decisions, or one-sided effort
- What real collaboration looks like — and how to practice it even when emotions run high
- Simple habits that turn planning, intimacy, and everyday communication into shared success
- How to recover quickly when you lose sync and return to partnership without blame
For readers who want deeper practice, a companion workbook is available for purchase — packed with additional prompts, guided exercises, and real-life scenarios for solo reflection or couples work.
Whether you're starting fresh or strengthening something already good, this book gives you the mindset and tools to fly your relationship with confidence, care, and courage.
G. Scott Graham is an existential handyman — fixing what’s broken, realigning what’s off-kilter, and helping people rebuild their lives with meaning, purpose, and the occasional strip of duct tape. He’s also an author, career coach, business coach, and psychedelic support coach based in Boston, Massachusetts.
Scott is driven to help clients follow their “true azimuth” — a direction distinct from “true north.” It’s not about chasing some universal ideal. It’s about identifying what genuinely matters to you. It’s about recognizing the forces that pull your life off course and learning how to adjust so you still arrive where your heart wants to go. When you're 90 and looking back, your life should feel like it was truly yours — filled with pride, purpose, and meaning. No regrets.
When he’s not coaching people to be their very best, Scott runs a nonprofit farm animal rescue and lives what he teaches. He does Tough Mudders, teaches Sun 73 Tai Chi, paddleboards with his dogs Groot and Rocket, and camps in State Parks across New England whenever he can. His daily spiritual practice is grounded in anāpānasati, vipassanā, and mettā-bhāvanā meditation. A firm believer in service as the heart of a life well-lived, Scott also volunteers as an EMT instructor, firefighter, and Master Gardener in his community.
In his "free time," he writes books.