Her fantasy
... understanding what love is about
As a man, but also as a woman, we try to define the undefined from a love story.
Dreaming about love and being in love ... the path from the fantasy to the love story itself ... is just a matter of luck ... or maybe where you find yourself, on the timeline of your own life.
Maybe is the perfect time for you to explore what love is about, or maybe other things are important at the moment ... and the love story can only be a future โprojectโ.
Exploring what love is about ... in our minds, as a fantasy ... or in the real life, as a real love story ... is depending only and only if we are ready or not.
But what is the difference between fantasy and reality, when even the Bible is saying that everything we see is just an illusion?
Well ... i believe that the fantasy is only the begining of defining what we want ... and the love story is the โexperimentโ itself.
Is it too much to name a love story ... an โexperimentโ?!
Well ... exploring ... as a fantasy or as reality is letting your soul understand what love is about.
And ... sometimes is even a life lesson.
The moment when you jump into the fairy tale ... the real fantasy ... and you understand the meaning of love ... the fact that love is about giving and not about receiving ... that is the moment when you also understand what life is about.
Accepting your partner, just as he / she is ... just as accepting all the people from our lives is the moment of awakening.
And also you should know that this path is leading you to point when your thinking will be totally redefined.
Life itself ... is about love.
Seeing what love is about ... is understanding the meaning of life.
If the โlove chapterโ started for you ... even if itโs just a fantasy or reality ... you should be happy.
The awakening will come to you!
Iโve started to write my first book at 16 โฆ but then โฆ realizing i could not publish it โฆ iโve abandoned the idea of being a โฆ writer.
20 years later โฆ iโve started to write again โฆ believing i will finally succeed โฆ but iโve failed one more time โฆ not getting the success i was chasing for.
Another 5 years later โฆ iโve started one more time to write โฆ but this time โฆ more as a therapy.
Itโs what iโve defined as โฆ self therapy.
I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas โฆ that were a lot related to me โฆ and my own soul.
I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.
I was simple writing my thoughts โฆ in essays โฆ becoming this way โฆ maybe not a writer โฆ. but what many define as โฆ an essayist.
This is not a poet โฆ and not a writer.
Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry โฆ but is still expressing his thoughts โฆ into a similar way โฆ as a poet.
And is not a writer โฆ cause have not the ability to write for too long time โฆ about the same subject.
But maybe i am not an essayistโฆ either.
I am just an ordinary person โฆ that could be better defined โฆ as a thinker.
Analyzing โฆ and defining my life โฆ practicing this process called โฆ self therapy โฆ i started to understand life โฆ and the way to better paths which i should follow.
And iโve wrote โฆ and wrote โฆ and wrote โฆ realizing one day that iโve published tens of books โฆ. not really understanding how the hell Iโve succeeded doing that.
Today i dare to recommend writing โฆ as a therapy.
I could even say โฆ itโs a simple way of understanding who we are โฆ but also a process that could help us โฆ heal our souls.
I personally continue to โฆ write.
Itโs in fact โฆ a non ending story that โฆ at least for myself โฆ will probably continue for the rest of my life.
But over all โฆ i am glad โฆ i am doing it.
I continue my philosophical journey โฆ not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayistโฆ but โฆ
Well โฆ. most probablyโฆ i am on a good path.
And โฆ i would dare to recommend to everyone โฆ all what i am doing today.